In January, Francis and Lisa Chan celebrated 25 years of marriage. Francis says the secret to having a God-honoring relationship—more than communication or any relational tips—is first being deeply in love with God. That opens the doors to be a giver, not a taker, with your spouse.
Francis says, "What we have found in marriage is ... we find so much security when we wake up every day in awe, like I can't believe you said that about me. God, I can't believe you delight me. You delight in me and you call me a member of your body, and you are I are one? Then it's like, 'What do I need from this?' [referring to his spouse].
"Instead, I'm a giver now. Because of everything that God's given me."
Photo credit https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=197&v=vX1uX7RWs9s
Thursday, August 8, 2019 9:27:00 AM